This past week has been a busy one. There has been so much to document that hasn't been.
But what needs to be written about more than anything else is the passing of my maternal grandmother.
Sarah H. Barzee Acor passed away Friday June 24, 2011.
Her posterity included 13 children, 55 grandchildren, 151 great grandchildren and 5 great great grandchildren.
Grandma Sadie lived a very humble life and was a wonderful example of selflessness. She had practically nothing because she gave everything she had to people she felt needed it more than her.
Unfortunately, I did not know her well, but it was not her fault that I didn't live close.
I do however look very much like her.
These pictures were taken when each of us were about 16 and were framed side by side and displayed on her mantel.
Some of my childhood memories of visiting my grandmother's home include:
Grandma Sadie always had hollyhocks growing in her garden.
She had five gallon buckets of ice cream in her freezer.
He graham crackers were always stale. (this makes me laugh)
She had an old set of Lincoln logs in her hall closet to play with.
She painted with oils and had her award ribbons from her paintings hanging in the spare bedroom.
She had a picture of the prophet and all of the apostles from the Ensign conference report center page taped on the closet door in her hallway.
She would serve us raw milk and frozen corn on the cob cooked in the microwave when we came to visit.
She had large hands.
Her bathroom smelled like yellow dial soap.
She was always happy.
Her basement scared me to death and it was known fact that the boogy man lived in her food storage room even though she would deny it.
The north wall of her basement was just Styrofoam insulation. This wall was covered in marker and fingernail scratched grand kid graffiti. I'm sure my name could still be found on that wall today.
Grandma was honest to a fault. I purposely left a pizza recipe at her home to hopefully enlarge her recipe box. Her idea of pizza included bread, ketchup, cheese and sliced hot dogs. She returned my recipe card in the mail with a lovely note.
She sent me a card with a one dollar bill in it every year on my birthday.
My brother Jared and I spent the night at her home once. She took us to the store and bought a huge box of Cookie Crisp for us after we assured her our mother allowed that type of cereal. The next morning, Jared and I admitted to her that our mother would never buy us sugar cereal. Grandma told us that we would have to take the cereal back to the store...but she couldn't because we had eaten the entire box before she woke up.
Her piano was slightly off tune and was missing the finish on many of the keys. I remember her playing "Teach Me to Walk in the Light" as I sat on a chair and stared out her front window.
She had a massive wooden fork and spoon hung on her wall.
She was colorblind- a trait that has been passed on by my mother and by me (we are both carriers of the gene) and has manifested with my very colorblind son Carter.
Her favorite color was lavender. We think it was one of the only colors she could truly see.
Grandma was buried in the Iona Idaho Cemetery this last Wednesday. All nine of her living children were in attendance along with many many of her grandchildren and great grandchildren. It was a wonderful day as I was able to spend time with members of my mother's family that I do not see but every five years or so. Her life was honored and celebrated and I was grateful to learn more about her personally through the wonderful tributes that were given at the funeral.
She was loved and will be dearly missed.